It’s funny how Beta thinking of trying to appease a woman is so infectious to all these men out there. It’s funny because so many men when caught with things girls will say to them will pretend to go along with what they are saying to gain favor with said girl, or to show them that they share similar qualities or interests for fear of losing said girls interest – and the funny thing is, by doing so, they end up losing the attention of the girl, not to mention their respect. The problem arises because it seems logical to go along with some of the things girls are saying or asking you, because it seems like the right way to go, but it isnt. We’ve talked about this before, about being an immovable object in the wake of female mysticism, and it is completely true - as much as a girl wants to have similar interests in you, she wants more for you to be confident and grounded, and comfortable standing your ground against her. She needs that safety from you, so she can play around in it, and find her place in your world, no matter what type of girl you are dealing with, no matter how ‘girl power’ infused she is.

Even though it seems counter-intuitive you will need to firmly tell a girl how you are, what you expect and what you will tolerate. You might get some minor insults thrown at you, but these are just shit tests to see if you will cave or not. Once you don’t cave, you sill start to see a much more relaxed and playful girl at you’re now pleasantly surprised disposal, that you can now play with. The shit tests can go right up to them telling you it isn’t going to work between you and her, which you can reply with something like this: “Maybe you’re right, well it was nice meeting you.” she will of course then realize you will not move from your position, and it provides a sense of loss for her that she will need to fill.

This can fall into two categories, never taking a girl seriously, and strong inner game. Always remember that when a girl is talking to you, her emotions range all over the place, the stuff they actually say don’t mean anything, what you are talking about will seem interesting, no matter what you are talking about if you are attractive to them, and you believe in what you are talking about. They will be enamoured with anything you are talking about. They will lavish attention on you and give you the glassy eyes of infatuation, and you will see a girl acting feminine and submissive to you. Editors note to prying women eyes: Submissive does not mean i want a girl, or guys want a girl to kiss their feet and obey every command, it is simply a short form for me to explain that a girl naturally wants to defer to a man in all area’s. Having your beliefs and interests confidently in place where you like yourself above all else is strong inner game and you will need to stick to it with a fortified structure built to keep out all feminine attacks. Which will never cease

It is important to remember that a girl will constantly be testing you, until, you reach an alpha point with her that you have her completely in love with you, trained as you will, to know that you will not tolerate her shit, and you have your limits clearly defined. Only then will you notice a limit of shit tests. When you start seeing shit tests pop up again, you have lowered your defenses and she is trying to penetrate the gaps. You will then need to reinforce your defenses.